I'm trying to figure out what love is. 

i spend a lot of time trying to figure it out. 

I read books, google, friends, my mum, my dad, and even my aunts.

but still, there is no answer that satisfy me.

i mean, i'm trying to figure out what is love between man and woman.

wikipedia : 

Love is any of a number of emotions related to a sense of strong affection and attachment.

cosmo magazine :

"When you meet someone you really like, you become infatuated, and your body produces a euphoria-inducing, adrenaline-like hormone," explains Pat Love, author of The Truth About Love 

my mum : 

 love is when you feel really good with someone, who inspires you to be better you but not changing yourself into other person. 

(actually it comes with a LOT of advices about men, what's NOT TO DO and so many more. my mum worried so much about it)

my dad: 

love is free to be yourself with that person. you don't have to worry about how you look, what you do. you can be yourself with that person. 

me: really?? it's hard to find that kind of person.

dad: maybe. but, once you find it, you should never let it go. 

me: okay, haa...for example. do you okay with mum in messy hair and bad clothes?

dad : i'm okay with it. I like it best when your mum just put simple make up. i like her the way she is.

(actually, it kinds of odd to talk about this thing with my dad....hahaha. he's kind of shy person)

books: 

love is some kind of emotion that attracts man and woman.at first, It makes you obsessed about that person. you think about him, want to be with him, feeling dizzy. (i think some of it are exaggerated to make it sooooo in fantasy)

at last, i still can't explain what love is. CAN ANYONE?????